When I meet new people, I directly digg for their pain. I don’t care about “social features” such as interests, preferences, style of dressing, etc. – I care about what emotionally hurts or rests heavy on them. Their suffering and their worries hold the essence of their “inner-selves” and contain enough information for me – to just love them.
Because as I figured: Pain is the one thing we all carry along with us – in amount predetermined by God. So to feel and stand pain seems the “struggle” we are made to fight, in order to prove dedication and gain salvation in total relief.
But this is just #weedtalks